Rozonda “Chilli” Thomas and actor Matthew Lawrence have opened up about love, life, and relationships in a recent interview with PEOPLE. The couple, who began dating in 2022, shared how their past experiences taught them important lessons about recognizing red flags and choosing partners wisely. Both Chilli and Lawrence have been in the public eye for years, which gave them insight into what makes a relationship healthy and lasting.
Chilli and Matthew Lawrence Learn to Spot Red Flags
Matthew Lawrence, 45, explained that early in life, he often ignored red flags in relationships, thinking small issues were not important. He admitted that when he was younger, he would “step over” warning signs and pretend they did not exist. Chilli, 54, agreed, adding that when people are young, they often do not realize the significance of these red flags. The couple now believes that noticing and addressing them is key to a strong and happy relationship.
Chilli shared that she keeps a detailed list of qualities she looks for in a partner and refuses to compromise on who she is. She said that while compromises are part of any relationship, staying true to yourself is essential. Lawrence agreed, saying that ignoring red flags only makes problems worse. Their shared approach to relationships helps them maintain peace, which Chilli described as the most important aspect of their love.
The couple first met in 2022 on a flight during a snowstorm and a canceled trip. Lawrence noticed Chilli’s laugh and asked to exchange Instagram handles, starting a friendship that developed into love. Despite living in different cities Chilli in Atlanta and Lawrence in Los Angeles the couple says that long-distance relationship has strengthened their bond. Lawrence explained that absence makes the heart grow fonder, and Chilli enjoys missing her partner when he is away.
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Now, the couple works together as co-hosts on Hallmark+’s new unscripted series Second Chance Love, which follows couples reconnecting in Sardinia, Italy. They described their working relationship as easy and natural, with love and respect guiding their interactions. Both say that simplicity, peace, and mutual support are the keys to their strong relationship. Their story shows how past experiences and mindful choices can help build a lasting, healthy romance.
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