Vanja Grbic, a star from 90 Day Fiance, recently became the center of attention after sharing her emotional journey on the latest season of Before the 90 Days (BF90). Her heart-wrenching story involving breakups with Božo Vrdoljak and Josko Luketin touched many viewers. However, some fans on Reddit are now calling out Vanja for showing a “victim complex.” While some viewers sympathize with her struggles, others believe that she might be crossing boundaries.
Vanja Grbic Criticized for Victim Complex
In a recent BF90 Tell-All episode, Vanja opened up about a shocking incident in which Josko, her ex-partner, recorded an intimate moment between them without her consent. This revelation left many viewers heartbroken, and Josko received significant backlash from both the cast and the audience. While Josko apologized for his actions, some fans felt that his apology was insincere, believing that he only apologized because he was caught.
Despite the trauma she experienced, Vanja has remained positive and resilient, trying to move forward from the incident. However, this does not mean that everyone sees her situation in the same light.
While Vanja’s personal challenges have resonated with many fans, some viewers on Reddit have raised concerns. They feel that she might be overplaying her role as a victim, and some even believe that she disrespects boundaries in her interactions with others. These fans feel that Vanja may be focusing too much on her past pain, rather than healing or setting healthy boundaries with people around her.
The “victim complex” label is often used to describe someone who repeatedly sees themselves as a victim, even when the situation may not warrant it. Some fans on Reddit argue that while Vanja’s experiences are indeed painful, her actions and reactions seem to feed into the idea that she is always the one who suffers. These critics suggest that she could be taking more responsibility for her actions and not relying so heavily on the role of the victim.
